The Problem with Self Reliance

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Scripture Passage: Mark 10:17-22

Americans today pride themselves in individualism and self-reliance. Question for thought: At what point is self-reliance dangerous? From this passage, what does God want us to see?

No one can be truly fulfilled until they recognize the lies this young man told himself:

  1. Lie: “I’m successful because I’m good.” (Success is not salvation)
  • Sometimes there is a disposition in our hearts to believe we can be good enough (verse 17 & 18). We may think that if we are moral and good, then bad things won’t happen.
  • Even the disciples of Jesus had the same mindset (John 9:1-3).
  • TRUTH: Jesus corrects this thinking by explaining it is impossible for anyone to be saved by their own merits. “No one is good except God alone.” Understanding this flips our approach to God. The rich young ruler needed God, needed the sufficiency of God. The good in our life is good.
  1. Lie: “I need Jesus to get across the finish line.” (I’m almost there with what I’ve done. Jesus is sort of a supplement in my Christian diet.)
  • Verse 19 & 20: In these verses, Jesus lists out commands about our relationship with God.
  • The man feels like he is SO close to getting this right. He has been successful in everything else–surely he can figure out this part too.
  • TRUTH: The guy doesn’t desperately want to follow Jesus. He wanted to add Jesus to his menu of other things he depended on as well.
  • Being “good” isn’t it. Following Him, serving, seeking, him is.

Are we desperate for God?

Discussion Questions

  1. As was talked about in the sermon, what owns you (other gods you may be worshipping)?
  2. What do you need to surrender to Jesus and hand off your own self-will?
  3. What was your biggest takeaway from the lesson today?

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