Scripture Passage: Proverbs 18:21
The Bible has a great deal to say about words. The words that we speak impact our lives and the lives of those around us. Our words have the power to bless people and also the power to hurt people.
The Hebrew word that’s translated “Gossip” in Proverbs is the work “rakhil” and it means one who slanders. Read the following Scriptures that teach us about Gossip:
• A gossip goes around revealing a secret, but a trustworthy person keeps a confidence
• A contrary person spreads conflict, and a gossip separates close friends (Proverbs 16:28).
• Whoever conceals an offense promotes love, but whoever gossips about it separates friends (Proverbs 17:19).
• A gossip’s words are like choice food that goes down to one’s innermost being (Proverbs 18:8).
Four Questions to Help us Avoid Gossiping:
1. Is he/she here? Is the person that you are talking about physically present?
2. Is it true? The information that we hear about a person may or may not be true.
3. Is it helpful? Are my words helpful for building someone up or do my words tear them down.
4. What does it reveal about my heart? The words we speak reflect what is within our heart. What do the words I speak reveal about my own heart?
• Ask God to help you speak words that bless others and build others up according to their needs.
• Ask God to show you how you may be using your words to hurt others through gossip. • Ask God to forgive you and to help you break free from the sin of gossip.
• Ask God to help you speak word that bless others!