Redefining Leadership

Scripture Passage: Psalm 131

Kingsland is blessed with many men who are seeking God’s heart for their lives, interceding in prayer for the marriages and their kids, leading strong both spiritually, relationally and working hard to provide, all the while trusting God as the ultimate provider.

Psalm 131, written by King David, contains some very practical lessons on servant leadership that men can apply as they lead their homes.

1. Redefined Power | 

Power is the ability to create change. Smart parenting involves both the use of hard and soft power. Parents must balance their use of both and exercise wisdom, humility, and grace as they lead their children.



Do you tend to be too hard on your kids or too soft? What is the danger of these extremes?



2. Accepted Limits | 

Dads must help their children understand the value of boundaries. Doing so can help keep our kids on track.

What boundaries have you set for your kids and why? How do you explain to your kids the value of boundaries?



3. Faith-filled Contentment
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Great leaders and great parents reach a maturity in their walk with God that anchors their souls to God’s faithfulness — so that when storms arise, or times are confusing, they can be at rest.



In what ways do you or should you model contentment for your kids that assures them you are trusting God?

The Value of Life

Scripture Passages: Psalms 8, 139, 103

The Bible affirms that life is sacred — that we are made in God’s image, that we are His special creation deserving of being treated with dignity and respect regardless of race, rank, or riches.

Every act of kindness as well as every act of violence that is committed in the world today is motivated by an underlying worldview and what that particular worldview teaches about the value of human life. What an individual believes about the value of human life can motivate them to either aggressively hurt others or to compassionately move in the direction of the hurting.

For too long, we have limited the scope of our understanding of the sanctity of human life to abortion alone. Abortion is indeed a violation of the sanctity of human life — but beyond this particular violation there are many others.

•  What are some other ways in which the sanctity of human life is violated in our world today?

As the primary faith trainers in their homes, parents must intentionally teach and model for their children what it means to value all human life — including their own. An individual who feels that their own life has little or no value is likely to have little or no regard for the welfare of their neighbor.

Our children must know that they are of inestimable value to God and to us. By so doing our children are more likely to affirm the worth of others, less likely to harm others, and more likely to stand against and to defend those whose lives are in danger.

• In what ways are you helping your children understand what it means to value human life?

• How are you guarding your children against media and messages that teach a disregard for human life?

• What can you and your family do to stand as champions for the value of human life?

 

The Image of God and Home Life

Summer in Psalms DIGITAL RE-02

Psalm 128
Scripture Passage: Psalm 128:1-6

Psalm 128 gives us a clear picture of how God designed the home to be a place for His image to be revealed and to experience His blessing.

  1. The Blessing of God comes from the nature of God.

As we experience God’s presence in our lives through a personal walk with God it causes us to be in awe of God (vs.1). We are blessed with the joy of worshipping God as He reveals Himself to us.

  1. The Blessing of God is given intentionally.

As we walk with God and follow His ways we reflect His image to those around us, especially to those in our family (vs. 2-3). However, if we do not walk with God and follow His ways we are a poor reflection of God’s image to others and it deeply impacts those closest to us.

  1. The Blessing of God extends generationally.

As we experience God’s blessings through His presence in our lives, walking with God and worshipping God our lives reflect God’s image and become a blessing to the next generation (vs. 5-6).

Prayer:

We all have brokenness in our lives and are impacted by our experiences in our homes. God desires to heal our brokenness and transform our lives through the power of the Gospel. Ask the Lord to help you answer these questions in response to today’s message:

  1. What are some unhealthy ways that I view God that He wants to change and heal?
  2. What are some ways that God wants to use me to bless those closest to me, especially my family?
  3. Is the brokenness in my life impacting my life and family in such a way that I need help? If so, ask a trusted friend to pray for you. You can also contact our Family Freedom Resource Center at 281.675.7862 or email Susan Sowell (Director of Family Freedom Resource Center) at SSowell@kingsland.org for additional prayer, help and resources.

Psalm 127

Scripture Passage: Psalm 127:1-5

We all are familiar with keys and most of us carry many keys. Keys are essential to gaining access to what is locked. The Bible is like a key. We carry it with us but often fail to use it to unlock the wisdom we need for daily living.

Understanding the Bible

The Old Testament is a collection of 39 books written in Hebrew and divided into the Torah, History, Writings, and Prophets. These books tell us the story of God’s faithfulness.

The New Testament is a collection of 27 books written in Greek. These books tell us the story of Jesus and the Church.

The Psalms were written by multiple authors over a number of years. These writings comprise Israel’s hymnbook.

Psalm 127 addresses the balance of home and work.

1. Biblical view of Work (Verse 1) | Unless the Lord builds the house…
It’s not about working a little harder; it’s about finding the work God created for us.
We are designed as humans to work. God has meaningful work for us to do, but in order to find that work, you need to find God. (John 15:5, Hebrews 12:2, Ephesians 2:10).

2. Biblical View of Provision (verse 2) | He gives…while they sleep
You are not the source of everything. Everything you have is because God gave you.
Seek the Kingdom and He will provide your needs. God wants to move us to confident, cheerful dependence on him to provide (2 Corinthians 8:13-15).

3. Biblical View of Family (verses 3-5) | Children are a gift
The primary place that God wants to use you is in the home. It all starts in the home and then everything flows from that. The world tells us to place our priorities elsewhere, but the home is the most essential place of priority.

Discussion Questions:

• What work do you believe God has called your family to do in this season? How are you seeking God to find that work?

• In what ways do you trust the Lord for provision in your life and with your family?

• How is family remaining a priority in your home? What are steps you can take to make the home a place of continued blessing to those there?